Beginner Dildo: A Beginner’s Guide To Your First Dildo

Written by: Jane Celespara

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Time to read: 10 min


When it comes to exploring one's sexuality, picking the right sex toy can make all the difference. If you're new to dildos, the world can seem very big. But don't worry—this guide will help you sort through the choices and find the best pleasure toy for you.


Understanding How Important It Is to Have Your Starter Dildo Toy


Choosing your first sex toy is much like exploring a culinary universe for the very first time. It's about finding the perfect dish that suits your palate. In the same way that you might start with a mild curry before moving on to the spiciest food, the dildo you choose for beginners should match your level of comfort and interest.


It's like Goldilocks: not too big, not too small, but just right. Your first purchase is more than just a buy; it's the start of learning what your body wants and how you like to be pleased.


If you choose the right dildo, it will be a gentle introduction to the many fun things that sex toys can do. It's about finding a friend you trust that feels like it was made just for your journey of self-discovery. The one that whispers as you head down the exciting road to finding what tickles your fantasy.


How to Find Your First Pleasure Partner: Choosing a Dildo


Diving into the world of pleasure can be exciting, and selecting the perfect sex toy for the uninitiated is crucial. Your first dildo sets the tone for future explorations, so it's important to choose wisely. So it’s always best to ask yourself: What kind of stimulation do you like? Do you prefer external stimulation to internal stimulation?


At ThatMood, we know how excited and sometimes confused newcomers can be when they have a lot of choices. For first-time users, the size and feel of the dildo should be just right for them. One must acknowledge her own readiness and desires.


Whether you're drawn to the realistic or the fantastical, our set of dildos for beginners is curated to ensure your sex toy journey starts off with the perfect match. You will not get just any dildo; it will be the one that was made just for you.


““Think about what you’re already comfortable with being inside of you, and use that as a guide,”

- Searah Deysach, Sex Toy Expert and Shop Owner

Exploring Different Types of Beginner-Friendly Dildos


The array of dildos available can be baffling, but that's where the joy of discovery begins. For beginners, size really does matter. Look for dildos that aren't too big but are still comfy. The material you choose is also important. Silicone dildos are often suggested because they are soft and safe for the body.


Just remember, having a dildo isn't just about the experience; it's about setting the stage for a lifelong journey of sexual happiness and discovery. So, embrace the diversity of dildos and let ThatMood guide your initial foray into this thrilling world.


The Best Dildos for Beginners: A Closer Look


As someone new to the world of dildos, you may find yourself lost in its vast variety of flavors. But here are the all-stars, each bringing its own unique blend of features to the table, ensuring that your initiation to pleasure is as smooth as silk and as exciting as a first kiss.


The Silicone Sweetheart


Praised for its velvety soft touch, silicone leads the pack with its body-safe material and user-friendly nature. It's like the perfect handshake—firm yet inviting. Toys made of silicone are flexible, smooth, and tender to the touch, ensuring that the first-time experience is as soothing as it is exhilarating.


The Slimline Charmer


Ideal for those who prefer subtlety over bold statements, this sleek option promises a comfortable experience without sacrificing the thrill of the ride. Think of it as the gentle yet persistent suitor who knows just how to make a good impression. Small but mighty, these compact toys promise to impress without being overwhelming.


The Magic Wand


With a slight curve to target pleasure spots and a smooth, easy-to-handle design, this type of pleasure toy serves as a magic wand for beginners. It’s designed to enchant, providing a simple yet profoundly satisfying experience.


The Vibrating Wonder


For the adventurous beginner, this vibrating option adds a buzz to the experience. It’s high approval and rating among its happy users prove that even the first steps can be taken on a dance floor. It promises a fun time, regardless of the tune.


The Suction Cup Star


Offering hands-free pleasure, this toy sticks by you, quite literally, through ups and downs. Having the best suction cup dildo is akin to discovering a book you can't put down. It leaves your hands-free to turn the pages with eager anticipation.



Each of these toys is a testament to the idea that there's truly something for everyone. It’s like attending a buffet where every dish is crafted with beginners in mind. No matter what you pick, it's designed to be a gentle introduction to a world of pleasure. Each with its own story to tell and secrets to unlock.


Features to Look for When You’re New to Sex Toys


Choosing and trying a dildo for the first time is much like unlocking a door to new sensations. It's crucial to find features that cater to comfort and ease. Here are a few key features to keep in the spotlight:


Material Matters


Seek out dildos made from body-safe materials such as silicone, glass, or stainless steel. These materials are not only easy to clean but also ensure a smooth journey, free from unwanted bumps. Unless, of course, you opt for a textured model.


Size and Shape


In the world of dildos, size really does matter—but bigger isn't always better for beginners. A modestly sized dildo with a slight curve can be a perfect introduction, ensuring comfort while still hitting all the right spots.


“Dildos come in all lengths, shapes, materials, and widths.”

- Taylor Sparks, Sex Toy Expert and Shop Owner

Flexibility


A dildo with a bit of give can be more forgiving than its rigid counterparts. This flexibility allows for a more comfortable exploration, adapting to your body’s contours with grace.


Base Stability


For those venturing into anal play, a dildo with a flared base is a must. This feature prevents the toy from taking a deeper dive than intended, keeping your adventures both pleasurable and safe.


Ease of Use


Look for dildos with user-friendly designs. Whether it’s built with a suction feature for hands-free play or a harness-compatible model for partnered fun, ease of use can significantly enhance the experience.


Remember, the quest for the perfect dildo is as much about safety and comfort as it is about pleasure. Keep these features in mind, and you’ll be well on your way to finding a faithful and safe companion for your journey of pleasure.


A modern beginner dildo next to 3 sets of purple candles in purple background.

Enhance Your First Dildo Experience


As someone who is new to the world of sex toys and dildos, it’s like stepping onto the dance floor for the first time. There's a rhythm to discover, a beat that suits you best. It's all about finding your groove and moving to the music of your own desires.


Experimentation is the name of the game. Try out different rhythms, tempos, and styles to see what makes your heart race and your toes curl. Consider it a solo dance-off where the only judge is your pleasure.


And if you're sharing this dance with a partner, open communication becomes the DJ, setting the tone and pace for the night. Share your favorite moves and positions with your toys, explore new ones together, and don't be shy to request a change in music if the current beat doesn't do it for you.


It's this blend of self-exploration and candid dialogue that turns a simple dildo into a magic wand capable of casting spells of ecstasy. So, go ahead, let the music play, and find your rhythm with your first sex toy adventure.


Moving Forward: What to Explore After Your First Toy


Once you've comfortably acquainted yourself with your first dildo, it's natural to imagine moving forward into the vast horizon of pleasure possibilities. The world of dildos invites you to explore tantalizing textures and delightful dimensions beyond that initial toy.


After reveling in the simplicity and joy that your first dildo provided, consider the thrilling exploration step. From the beckoning curves of G-spot stimulators that promise to hit all the right notes to the enchanting pulses of vibrating ones.


Let’s not also overlook the realm of textured dildo toys, offering a tactile experience that adds a whole new dimension to the journey. Perhaps you might be curious about sex toys with added features like suction cups, harness compatibility, or a tentacle dildo.


Don't hesitate to diversify ; your journey after the first toy should be as enriching as it is exciting. Remember, from your first to the umpteenth, each experience is a step forward in your sensual journey and discovery.


Care and Maintenance of Your First Pleasure Partner


Treating your sex toys with a little tender, loving care isn't just about keeping them in tip-top shape . Imagine your dildo as a valued guest in your home. Just as you wouldn't offer a cherished friend a dusty seat, your dildo deserves the same courtesy. Washing it with mild soap and warm water before and after each rendezvous ensures that your special friend is always fresh and ready for the next adventure.


Storing it properly is equally important. Think of it as tucking your dildo into a cozy bed, away from the harsh sunlight and prying eyes, ensuring it's well-rested and discreetly out of sight for its next performance.


This routine maintenance might seem like a chore, but it's really just a simple step in the dance of keeping your pleasure play both exciting and hygienic. Just like any good relationship, a little care and attention go a long way.


Final Thoughts


Your quest for the perfect dildo is a journey into self-discovery with a promise of pleasure-packed destinations. By exploring preferences and carefully selecting a toy that resonates, you can unlock new doors to enjoyment, whether you’re flying solo or with a co-pilot.


The key is to embrace this adventure with an open heart and a dash of courage, allowing oneself to revel in your sensual fantasies. With the right dildo as a trusty sidekick, the realms of pleasure are boundless, offering countless opportunities to laugh, learn, and leap into ecstasy. So, here's to the brave souls setting sail on this voyage of intimate discovery.


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FAQs

How do I choose the right dildo for me from ThatMood's collection?

Welcome to your personal journey! Choosing the right dildo as a beginner involves considering various factors, such as comfort level, size, and texture. Look for something that matches your desires yet feels comfortable for a first-time experience. Our curated collection of dildos at ThatMood offers a variety of options to ensure you find the one that aligns perfectly with your personal comfort and pleasure.

What should I look for in terms of design and features?

For your first sex toy, the key is finding a design that promises ease of use and a comfortable introduction to pleasure. Look for dildos with a smooth texture, a manageable size, and gentle curves for easy exploration. Features like a suction-cup base for hands-free enjoyment and hypoallergenic materials for safety can also enhance your experience. ThatMood offers a range of beginner-friendly designs to help you start your discovery with confidence.

Can you explain why size and material matter when selecting a dildo for the first time?

Absolutely! When it comes to dildos for beginners, size really does matter. It’s important to start with a size that won't be overwhelming and will help you get accustomed to the sensation. The material is also crucial for your comfort and safety. Silicone is often recommended for beginners because it’s soft, body-safe, and easy to clean. ThatMood prioritizes these factors to ensure that beginners find a match that is both comfortable and pleasurable.

How do I maintain and clean a dildo?

Proper care and maintenance are vital for the longevity and safety of your sex toys. Start by understanding the material of your toys and following the manufacturer’s cleaning instructions. Use appropriate cleaners and store your dildo properly to keep it in pristine condition. Regular cleaning before and after each use is important. At ThatMood, we advocate for the utmost care of your toys to ensure continued enjoyment and safety.

After becoming comfortable with my first dildo, what should I consider exploring next?

Once you're comfortable with your first dildo, it's exciting to think about exploring further. You may want to consider dildos with different textures, dimensions, or added features like vibrating dildos or harness compatibility. The goal is to enrich and diversify your experience at a pace that feels right for you. ThatMood is here to guide and support you as you expand your horizons and discover new chapters in your journey of self-pleasure.




Portrait image of Jane Celespara.

Jane Celespara

As a writer with seven years of experience under her belt, Jane Celespara enjoys bringing her research skills earned from her university degree to every and any topic put in front of her. Having been raised in a religious family and community, she grew up believing sex was a taboo subject - something to be ashamed of. Now, her aim is to foster healthy discussions, dispel taboos, empower individuals, and raise awareness about sexual health and how it impacts our overall wellness—physically, mentally, and emotionally, without the guilt and cringe feeling.

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